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如何放下一个喜欢的人
刚在找帅t小姐姐
想看看他们然后嘎嘎乐的时候
看到一个小姐姐在展示自己的'舔狗'行为
她说自己是舔狗因为发了好多好多小作文給对方
但是无回音
我觉得坦然表达自己的喜欢不是舔狗
是一件很勇敢很了不起的事
喜欢一个人不表达不付出的话
这个人就会成为你多年的执念
反而是一直表达在自己愿意的范围内一直付出
那些无回应让你产生的失落会消耗你对对方的喜欢
当喜欢和爱被消耗到一个程度
你也就学会了放手
那么在付出的时候要注意一点
看心情付出
你乐意付出多少就付出多少
不要去违背自己的接受范围过多付出
那么后面会变成憎恶
这也不是你喜欢一个人的初衷
而人们喜欢一个人是对方身上有自己想要的东西
例如你喜欢会关心你的人会是因为你想要这样的人类
那么怎么替代掉这个人?
在你的朋友里找这样的人
分散对对方的需求
同时找对方身上让你感到被冷落的地方
反复回想放大这些地方
并且在真正放手的阶段拉黑删除不见面
然后多去外卖交友
因为会关心人的人类是一类人
不是一个人
你会找到除了能关心你还给你做饭吃还把你放心尖上还好看的人类的
就是你要相信你放不下的人
绝对不是这个宇宙造出来的你喜欢的最完美的作品
一定有更好的在外面等着你
除非你先扔掉手上的烂苹果
你才能有机会遇到这个人
Anyway最后都祝大家只有相爱没有放不下❤️
#better me#
韋Wei
9天前
當我告訴自己：我不要了
在那一瞬間，我感覺解脫了
我們經常會在有些人和事上
焦慮、內耗、擰巴，走不出來
其實這很正常
每個人都會這樣
跟自己說：我不要了！
這一刻的力量感特別強大
真的不能在爛人爛事上糾纏
只會造成身體和精神上的傷害
當你放下對別人的期待、需求感
放下對自己的苛責
你會發現：這個事情在一瞬間就變得很美好了
當你特別糾結於某一段關係是否要繼續
或者某一件事情沒有結果的時候
你就會陷入無盡的內耗
這個時候，告訴自己：
大不了，我不要了！
學會放棄是件很厲害的事情
放棄一段消耗你的關係
放棄某個不甘心的執念
放棄就算努力了也得不到的東西
放棄不切實際的幻想
放棄緊握著不撒手的過去
放奔不適合自己的生活
放棄這個詞看起來有點喪
但放棄也意味著新的開始
意味著你會收穫更多新的東西
想要的越多，痛苦就越多，
告訴自己：我不要了
不因為小事讓自己陷入焦慮
不再消耗自己
如果你已經盡了全力
就不必擔心做的不夠好
只要一直在成長的路上
就一定會遇到更好的自己
不取悅任何人
這世界很喧囂，做自己就好
我們終其一生
都無法滿足所有人的要求
#better me#
平凡的幸欣♾️️： 我不要了
vidhu
3月前
Navratri special ✨
#love is love# #onlygirls#love is love#better me#love is love#lifestylevision#onlygirls#lifetime#love is love# #onlygirls# # #
Silverwolf
1月前
Ain't it fun?
I'm a mess, I'm aware and know what? I'm fine with it. I'm working on it 😁 I've actually never been so happy to be so.
Why? because might be a mess, but a mess can be organized, tidied up, only need to start somewhere and keep going, there are people who do not have that luck, who live so deep within their bubble that will just complain on and on about what they lack or criticise and judge others.
Yet, for the first time in 15 years, I can say it: I'm a big mess and proud of it, proud to have something to work on. Proud of who I am and who I'm working to be, proud of taking action and not just sitting back and hiding just in case what others might say.
I'm a mess, it is who I am and only I can choose whether I stop or not, you can come and tell me over and over as you have in the past, but will only make my smile biggest, because I'm honest with myself and that makes me really happy.
I'm happy of being aware of what I lack and will never have. Might overthink sometimes, be too caring, talk myself down, my biggest hater, talk way too much, have no fashion sense, brainless might be told...
I am not worth what others were given (in a humble way, not given same chances) and it's fine, because I'm not others. I'm creating my home and we all are unique and nobody is perfect and it is totally fine.
Be a mess, be sad then happy, then rude, then quiet, then talk... as you want, because what is important here is that YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE, UNIQUE and nobody an be like you are 😉, wear that with pride and honour because you earned it.
"Crybaby! Yes! with honour!" you are sensitive "monster with a frozen heart! yes! with honour!" I choose who to be vulnerable with or simply am more distant "busy! Yes! with honour!" because if that you are busy might be because you have a passion you're giving your all and due to that and more, you should never hide who you are, special and unique.
Nothing beats being with the right person and being yourself with them, nothing beats the feeling of acceptance when you give it your all and is given back, that moment you know they are your soulmate, with whom you will always be yourself and who you want to see being themselves forever.
I'm a mess and I'm thankful for all that have dealt with me and have the patience to do so, you're the best 😄
#better me# # #
长腿逊萌龙
29天前
有大阪的朋友一起跨年嗎？
有人跨年在大阪的嗎？一起跨年呀😁#love is love# #onlygirls#love is love#better me#love is love#countdown2025#
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